How to Convince Her to Go Down on You

Blowjobs are awesome, and that’s basically a scientifically proven fact. Still, it’s not always easy to convince a girl to go down on you even if you’ve been hooking up with her for a while. If you know some of the ways to go about convincing a girl to go down on you, you’ll be able to make sure that you have more satisfying hookups. It’s just a generally good skill to have if you’re trying to get more out of your relationship. Remember to always approach the discussion about these sorts of things casually so that you don’t wind up coming across as rude. If you’re interested in figuring out how you convince your girlfriend or hookup partner to go down on you, then here’s what you need to know:

Make It Worth Her While


Treat her good and make sure she’s turned on

If you’re going to ask a girl to go down on you, you can’t just expect her to do it out of the kindness of her heart. After all, it’s not the easiest thing in the world for women to do – imagine jaw aches galore. Making it worth her while is a good way to make her more likely to want to go down on her. This means that you should treat her good and make sure she’s turned on and interested in doing something nice for you. Buying her jewelry or presents usually isn’t the way to go about this. You should focus more on making sure that she’s satisfied by the end of the hookup too, because if she’s not getting anything out of it then she might not really be interested.

Don’t Focus Entirely on the Blowjob

04It’s important to make sure that you’re not just asking her to give you a blowjob and nothing else. Make sure that you involve other things in the hookup as well. You may want to have a blowjob as a prelude to sex, or as a prelude to making sure she feels good, too. It’s also important to not act like having a blowjob is the end of the world. Make sure that you focus more on the sensuality of the act rather than just the fact that you want a blowjob. If you make her feel beautiful and convince her that you want her to do it because you know she’ll be amazing at it, you stand a better chance of actually getting what you want.

Return the Favor

After a Blowjob, it's best to return the favor.

After a Blowjob, it’s best to return the favor.

The best way to convince a girl to go down on you is to agree to go down on her. Of course, this requires that the women you’re hooking up with actually be interested in being eaten out. If she’s down for getting you to go down on her, then you should be set. After all, she can hardly complain about having to give you a blowjob if you’re going to down on her in return. You may even want to eat her out first so that she feels more gracious and willing to go down on you.