How to Convince Her to Go Down on You

Blowjobs are awesome, and that’s basically a scientifically proven fact. Still, it’s not always easy to convince a girl to go down on you even if you’ve been hooking up with her for a while. If you know some of the ways to go about convincing a girl to go down on you, you’ll be able to make sure that you have more satisfying hookups. It’s just a generally good skill to have if you’re trying to get more out of your relationship. Remember to always approach the discussion about these sorts of things casually so that you don’t wind up coming across as rude. If you’re interested in figuring out how you convince your girlfriend or hookup partner to go down on you, then here’s what you need to know:

Make It Worth Her While


Treat her good and make sure she’s turned on

If you’re going to ask a girl to go down on you, you can’t just expect her to do it out of the kindness of her heart. After all, it’s not the easiest thing in the world for women to do – imagine jaw aches galore. Making it worth her while is a good way to make her more likely to want to go down on her. This means that you should treat her good and make sure she’s turned on and interested in doing something nice for you. Buying her jewelry or presents usually isn’t the way to go about this. You should focus more on making sure that she’s satisfied by the end of the hookup too, because if she’s not getting anything out of it then she might not really be interested.

Don’t Focus Entirely on the Blowjob

04It’s important to make sure that you’re not just asking her to give you a blowjob and nothing else. Make sure that you involve other things in the hookup as well. You may want to have a blowjob as a prelude to sex, or as a prelude to making sure she feels good, too. It’s also important to not act like having a blowjob is the end of the world. Make sure that you focus more on the sensuality of the act rather than just the fact that you want a blowjob. If you make her feel beautiful and convince her that you want her to do it because you know she’ll be amazing at it, you stand a better chance of actually getting what you want.

Return the Favor

After a Blowjob, it's best to return the favor.

After a Blowjob, it’s best to return the favor.

The best way to convince a girl to go down on you is to agree to go down on her. Of course, this requires that the women you’re hooking up with actually be interested in being eaten out. If she’s down for getting you to go down on her, then you should be set. After all, she can hardly complain about having to give you a blowjob if you’re going to down on her in return. You may even want to eat her out first so that she feels more gracious and willing to go down on you.


The Quickest Way: Why Baking and Cooking for Your Man Really Is the Answer

You’ve heard the old saying, right? “The quickest way to a man’s heart is through his stomach”? You might have wondered from time to time if that was true. It might be a good idea to try it out but it’s also something cheesy that can easily be taken as dorky or silly. It’s never great to be laughed at by someone you like and are interested in so maybe it’s not the best way to start out the relationship. As you get closer, though, cooking meals for the guy you love is actually a great way to get to know each other and get closer. If you get into a relationship or are close to being in one and cook him some nice meals or bake him some great pastries then you’ll see how right the saying really is.

Who Doesn’t Love a Good Meal?

03The appeal of food is extremely obvious. It’s hard to find someone who doesn’t like food. Everyone has some sort of sustenance they enjoy eating and would do it all the time if they could. For some people it’s ice cream and for others it’s spinach. Food is the universal language of language as long as it’s something that someone enjoys.

Cooking a meal for someone is a very meaningful thing. You’re putting a lot of energy and hard work into doing something for them. Baking and cooking involve a lot of work in general and it’s something that a lot of people hate doing for themselves, let alone someone else. Cooking and baking are definitely labors of love and people understand that from experience. The great food at the end is basically a killer bonus to an already grand and romantic gesture.

It Means You Have More Time Together

Cooking for him means you will have more time together

Cooking for him means you will have more time together

Ask your man or perspective boyfriend over to your house or invite yourself over to his. Offer to cook him a meal and see what happens. If he’s a good catch then he will offer to help you or at least be in the room while you do it. Making food together means that you have more time together then you might have had before.

Meals are also typically made to be eaten together when you cook for your hubby. Sitting down and eating is sometimes the only time you can make for each other in a busy relationship and so you have to make the magic last. Talk as much as you can in between bites.

You Can Bond Over Cooking

Create moments where you can cook together. Believe it or not, cooking can actually be a great tool to use to bond with your mate. Giggle as you make messes and accidentally get involved in kitchen blunders. Enjoy the fruits of your labor as you go, dipping fingers into batters and asking him to taste the broth you just worked on. Some chefs describe cooking with someone one of the most intimate things you can do. Try it out for yourself and see if it’s really true.

Use it to Show Off A Little

Use your Cooking as an opportunity to show off

Use your Cooking as an opportunity to show off

Cooking for your man can also be something you can do to elevate your status as a good girlfriend or wife. Being able to cook is a well sought after skill and personality trait so showcase it often. You can also use it to draw attention to yourself and make your man realize how grateful he is to have you if you make enough to share with friends and coworkers. With every stop at his desk to ask where he bought those great cookies or the superb potluck, he’ll be thinking of you fondly.


Movies That You Should Never Watch With Your Partner on a Romantic Date

Much like how there are some movies that are always perfect to watch on a date, there are just as many movies that you will never want to watch when you are trying to be romantic with your partner. These can run the gambit from comedies to action flicks, but all that they really have in common is the fact that they are a huge turn off for romance in general. If you want to avoid finding yourself in an awkward situation where you are trying to turn on the charm but the movie you are watching is turning it right back off for you, then you might want to stay away from these movies on your date.

Lord of the Rings

lord_of_the_ringsWhile the Lord of the Rings trilogy is a really spectacular set of movies with amazing graphics and a lot of great music and fight scenes, it is really not the sort of movie that you want to be watching in a romantic setting. Not just because there is so much fighting going on that it can kill the romance at any moment and not just because the storyline is a little too deep and convoluted for something like a makeout session, but also because the movies are just so darn long. Even if your date is entertained by you turning on your charm during a war movie, they will not want to sit through three hours or more of you trying to fight with the mood whiplash going on in the movie. Save yourself the trouble and just do not try to make Lord of the Rings romantic.

Monty Python

monty_pythonThere are a bunch of Monty Python movies and episodes of the Flying Circus out there and absolutely none of them are good material for a romantic date. Monty Python is certainly something that a lot of people find funny and while it might be charming to watch when you are both interested in having a good laugh, you do not want butt and boob jokes going on in the background when you are trying to put the romantic moves on your date. Aside from that, though, Monty Python’s humor is not for everyone. A lot of Americans really do not understand the humor behind the comedy group because they do not fully grasp the British sense of humor. You do not want to risk the chance that your date might just not get the humor and instead hate you for subjecting them to something so weird and boring.

End of Evangelion

End_of_EvangelionNot a lot of people have actually heard of the Evangelion series or the movie, End of Evangelion, but if you really want to find out about it, your date is not the best place to do so. This movie first covers a recap of an entire twenty-six episode series before finishing off with an alternate ending for the series. Not only is it information and plot heavy, but it is extraordinarily confusing and violent – not things that you want going on when you are trying to get your romance on. While this is a movie you might enjoy in your own spare time if you are interested in post-apocalyptic worlds and teenagers being forced to save the world from extinction, it is a little too heavy and bizarre to be anything that your date is going to want to see when they signed up for a DATE.